Dos and Don’ts – Dining Etiquette Around the World
Portugal
Do: – leave a tip. Around 10 per cent of the bill is common.
Don’t: – ask for salt and pepper if they are not provided on the table. It is considered to be an offense to the chef’s seasoning skills.
France
Do: – keep your hands above the table. Rest your wrists on the table and not on your lap.
– use bread to mop up bits of sauce or food on the plate. Always tear a piece of bread off instead of biting directly into it. When not in use bread belongs on the table not on the plate.
Don’t: – split the bill. It is considered to be the height of unsophistication. Offer to pay the bill in its entirety or someone else will.
Japan
Do: – drink directly from the soup bowl as spoons are uncommon. Slurp your food especially noodles and soup. It shows your appreciation to the chef – the louder the better!
Don’t: – leave a tip. Tipping staff is very rare and can be seen as rude.
– cross your chopsticks, lick them or stick your chopsticks vertically into a bowl of rice, these are all considered very rude
– pass food using chopsticks either, a similar practice takes place at funerals.
Italy
Do: – avoid milk beverages after a meal as they can hinder digestion, go for an espresso instead
– add 5-10 % tip for exceptional service. The rest of the service charge is usually included in the bill.
Don’t: – ask for parmesan cheese if it is not explicitly offered. It’s a huge faux pas to put extra cheese on top of your pizza, and worse still to add it to seafood.
India
Do: – wash your hands both before and after eating, pay close attention to the fingernails.
Don’t: – eat too quickly or too slowly, a medium pace is important.
– eat with your left hand, it is considered unclean. Use the right hand instead, cutlery is rarely provided.
Thailand
Do: – expect all dishes at once rather than in set courses
– be ready to share. Sharing food is very common and dishes will often be served to split amongst the table
Don’t: – eat from your fork, use it only to push food onto your spoon
– take the last bite from the sharing bowl
China
Do: – belch! This is seen as a compliment to the chef for creating a satisfying meal.
– arrive on time and dress out of respect for your fellow diners.
Don’t: – tip. Restaurants often have a no tipping policy.
– finish all your food, leave a small amount of food on your plate to show your host gave you more than enough to eat
– dig through your food for anything in particular, it’s very rude.
Can you match the countries with what is acceptable to do in them?
1. Portugal | a. Slurp your food especially noodles and soup. It shows your appreciation to the chef – the louder the better! |
2. France | b. Wash your hands both before and after eating, pay close attention to the fingernails. |
3. Japan | c. Belch! This is seen as a compliment to the chef for creating a satisfying meal. |
4. Italy | d. Leave a tip. Around 10 per cent of the bill is common. |
5. India | e. Be ready to share. Sharing food is very common and dishes will often be served to split amongst the table.
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6. Thailand | f. Avoid milk beverages after a meal as they can hinder digestion, go for an espresso instead. |
7. China | g. Keep your hands above the table. Rest your wrists on the table and not on your lap. |
Key:
1. d.
2. g.
3. a.
4. f.
5. b.
6. e.
7. c.
Can you do the same with the ’don’ts’ ?
1. Portugal | a. Don’t ask for parmesan cheese if it is not explicitly offered. |
2. France | b. Don’t leave a tip. Tipping staff is very rare and can be seen as rude. |
3. Japan | c. Don’t finish all your food, leave a small amount of food on your plate to show your host gave you more than enough to eat. |
4. Italy | d. Don’t eat from your fork, use it only to push food onto your spoon. |
5. India | e. Don’t eat with your left hand, it is considered unclean. Use the right hand instead. |
6. Thailand | f. Don’t ask for salt and pepper if they are not provided on the table. It is considered to be an offense to the chef’s seasoning skills. |
7. China | g. Don’t split the bill. It is considered to be the height of unsophistication. Offer to pay the bill in its entirety or someone else will. |
Key:
1. f.
2. g.
3. b.
4. a.
5. e.
6. d.
7. c.
Vocabulary
to leave a tip | borravalót adni |
offense | sértés |
seasoning | fűszerezés |
wrist | csukló |
lap | öle valakinek |
to mop up | kimártogatni |
to tear | törni |
to bite | harapni |
to split the bill | elosztani a számlát |
unsophistication | nem udvarias viselkedés, bunkóság |
in its entirety | egészében |
to slurp | szürcsölni |
noodles | tészta |
the louder the better | minél hangosabban, annál jobb |
staff | személyzet |
rude | udvariatlan |
chopsticks | evőpálcika |
to lick | nyalni |
vertically | függőlegesen |
funeral | temetés |
milk beverage | tejes ital |
to hinder | hátráltatni |
digestion | emésztés |
to go for | választani, előnyben részesíteni |
exceptional service | átlagon felüli szolgáltatás |
included in the bill | benne foglaltatik a számlában |
explicitly offered | kifejezetten kínálják |
faux pas | hiba, nem helyénvaló cselekedet |
medium pace | közepes sebesség, tempó |
cutlery | evőeszköz |
in set courses | fogásonként, fogásokra bontva |
to belch | böfögni |
compliment | bók |
satisfying meal | finom, laktató étel |
out of respect | tiszteletből |
to have a no tipping policy | borravaló adása nem kívánatos az adott helyen |